Today, I want to dive into a topic that affects many but is often misunderstood—sexual dysfunction.
When someone experiences challenges with sexual performance, the instinctive response is to attribute it to a physical issue. However, the truth is that over 90% of sexual dysfunction, whether in men or women, is deeply rooted in emotional and psychological factors that manifest as physical problems.
Sexual dysfunction rooted in emotional and psychological factors.
Consider a case I encountered with a man in his 40s, who was puzzled by his struggle with erectile dysfunction. Physically, he was in excellent shape, maintaining a regular workout routine, and leading what appeared to be a healthy lifestyle. So, why the dysfunction? The answer lay not in his body but in his past—specifically, in the emotional scars left by his relationship with his ex-wife. Over many years, she experienced a chronic lack of sexual desire, leading to frequent rejection. This constant dismissal built up layers of negative emotions within him, deeply buried in his subconscious, eventually resulting in erectile dysfunction.
Even after their divorce, despite having affairs and multiple sexual partners, the emotional baggage from his past continued to haunt him. It wasn’t until he began to confront and release these repressed emotions that he saw a significant improvement. Within about two months of working through these issues, his erectile dysfunction started to resolve.
This case illustrates a crucial point: many people view intimacy and sex as purely physical acts. Yet, when you take a moment to reflect, it becomes clear that all intimate relationships start in the mind. Every sexual encounter is first imagined, mind-rehearsed, and emotionally experienced in the brain before it ever becomes a physical reality.
Therefore, sexual dysfunction is often more about psychological and emotional struggles than physical ailments.
So, what if discussing your sexual performance issues with someone else feels too uncomfortable?
How can you uncover and address the hidden psychological and emotional barriers within your subconscious on your own?
Let’s take erectile dysfunction as an example. When dealing with erectile dysfunction, a powerful self-healing method is:
1. Close your eyes.
2. Focus on the negative emotions or feelings related to your erectile dysfunction.
3. As these feelings come up, ask yourself, "When have I felt these or similar feelings before?"
4. Identify them. These emotions are usually not new; they might be connected to different events or stages of your life.
5. Once you recognize them, you can release these built-up emotions through breathing, visualization, or other techniques.
When these deep emotions are truly released, the issue of erectile dysfunction can also be resolved.
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Disclaimer: The content of this article is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your doctor or other qualified healthcare providers with any medical condition. The author is not a licensed medical professional, and relying on the information provided in this article is at your own risk. Before making any significant changes to your lifestyle or treatment plan, please consult a medical professional.
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